my missos hates living with a cat

my missos and I have been living together since she moved to a new area where I got a job.

she feels so lonely and depressed for a while due to the new place.

no friend and no one talk with her. even she is a bit difficult to get a job because she is a student and bit hard to manage work schedule.

anyway... her depression has been serious she often cries and annoying to me. being more obsessed and so sensitive.

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so I thought getting pat which it helps her symptom, and she also wanted but she wanted to wait it till we settle down..

otherwise, I wanted to see the cat at petshop with her. when I visited there, I instantly wanted to get the cat. we were arguing, she really denied to get the cat instantly. she told me she is not ready.

she said..

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she has a low immune system.. and skin. she is a bit worried about as well.

and she hasn't got any work and school schedule. her goal is settle down, getting a job, her school with enough income(but my income is stable I can support) for her life goal?

.. she just moved here for us life..)

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anyway, we argued and with my begging.

we brought the cat,

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but after that, she extremely cares hygiene, and clean the house.

she put the cat into box as well,,(I can not understand)

she said she wanna take her own time without bothering,

but I think cat does not bother it.

i can not understand putting a cat into the box.

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even she feels so jealous due to my behaviour which I give more attention to cat.

i said this is not competition why you feel jealous about that ????

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i think she is overthinking and overcare.

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how can I understand it?

whoes fault?

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*she had pat before. but she has garden at her house so she lived seperately

she feels so uncomfortable sharing house and things together.

hairs and things...

i said living separating is impossible.

we sort of negotiated living.

except room, the cat can move everywhere.

but she keeps clean the area.........

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what should I do?

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