TLDR: boyfriend’s dog is terrible, idk how to train a 10 year old dog. Long rant. Sorry.
To add: I have tried to like the dog. I tried to have him on my lap, play with him, whatever. But no. Sorry. Whatever I try, his behavior is just terrible and overrides everything I do. I tried to focus on the positives and what I like about his dumb dog. But he has too many negatives traits I can’t think of any positives.
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We both live with our family still. I’m 24F, hes 27M. In my household, we have cats and dogs. I grew up with animals, i love them, I’d die for my pets. In his, he only has one terrible, spoiled, bratty dog. I sleep over at his place, which means.. I’m also around his dog. (I can’t have him sleep at my place yet; parents request, don’t ask lol)
The first time I met his dog, he humped me NON. STOP. That left a poor impression and now I’m like ew this dog is gross.
Then I notice how his family does not discipline this spoiled dog. This dog barks/begs at the dinner table, and his family would feed him (I saw them feed him McFlurry and chocolate cake last week). Twice, he vomited blood, and no one has yet to take him to the vet. The only person who says no is me, and sometimes my boyfriend. I get so annoyed just by seeing him around us at the dinner table.
We went on a local family vacation and they brought the dog (eye roll), and we carpooled. I was sleeping in the back seat, and when I fell asleep, the stupid dog went crazy and started barking and jumped on my face (I forgot what triggered him). So I freaked out and got really pissed. The dog is known by our mutual friends as the most annoying dog. No one likes my boyfriend’s dog. Everyone hates the dog. They know how terrible/annoying this dog is (and we all love cats/dogs).
The dog is smelly, so whatever he lies on, IT STINKS. So I don’t want him licking me, near me, or on my items. One time he pooped in the dining room and no one seemed to care and didn’t discipline the dog.
This dog barks/whines nonstop if he isn’t with ANYONE. His parents started working again recently so the only ones home are me and him, and the dog knows so he whines and barks to come in his room. And I told my boyfriend I have never despised a dog, and I refuse to spend my day/early morning with his dog. I like to sleep in on my days off, and I can’t. His dog puts me on edge. His dog barks like crazy and won’t stop. And the worst part is, his family just lets him bark, and feeds into his stupid barking behavior.
Over the weekend, the dog bit me because I picked him up. The dog was in his bedroom (against my request that I don’t want him near me), and my boyfriend brought him in because he was barking from loneliness. The dog jumped to the bed and lied next to me which I didn’t like. He smells. I don’t want him near me. So I picked him up and he bit both my hands (I’m fine, his teeth are soft or idk not as sharp). Then he got kicked out and back to his parents’ room. But my boyfriend had to bring him in because he just kept fucking barking for almost an hour (this time caged so we don’t interact). Even when he is caged, him being in the same room as me causes a lot of anger, hate, and makes me anxious/nervous/stressed.
He barks at everything. Literally. Leave him in his parents’ room while we sleep (barks), sees people (barks), we are in the car and we stop for gas (barks). This dog is my worst nightmare. He’s needy, gets jealous of me and my boyfriend (if I kiss him, he goes to my boyfriend and demands to be picked up), and annoying.
I have expressed multiple times to my boyfriend how terrible him and his parents did at raising the dog and there was no training at all. Now, I refuse to sleep over his house because of the dog. Since his parents are working, that means the dog is going to bark for us to constantly be with him. Yet I don’t want to be with him.
My only solution is possibly having his dog do a bark collar. If anyone can tell me more about their experiences or how to control a ten year old dog from just being so god damn annoying. It’s hard for me too because whenever I tell his family to not do that, they just shrug it off. So I’d feel weird training their dog. Any suggestions PLEASE. This dog has TERRIBLE BEHAVIORS.
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