Wednesday, 1 December 2021

Kitty Blues

I know there's a million posts about this subject but I'm starting to feel like I'm loosing my mind.

I adopted a tabby DSH awhile ago, a few months, and he is so sweet and chatty and cuddly. He was a year and a half when I got him, so almost two years now. I've owned cats my whole life and have been the primary caretaker. All my previous cats have been chatty and cuddly but for some reason this cat annoys the shit out of me, even though he isn't as chatty as my previous cat. I never had kitten/puppy blues before but the whole first week I brought him home I was in tears and couldn't eat. I still get panic attacks every once in awhile but it mostly has simmered out to resentment and underlying constant stress. I have ADHD and clinical depression, which I now know can contribute to the blues in the first place. I'm really not sure what to do at this point, I would never take it out on the cat, I keep him on a feeding schedule and I play with him for several hours a day. Every time I see him I just want to scream, I'm not sure what to do if I should look into rehoming him or if this will ever pass. I waited a long time to find what I thought was the perfect cat, I had both my roommates meet him before I brought him home and did so much research. I just feel like I want my non-pet life back and I'm constantly mourning and filled with grief. Advice appreciated!!

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