So this is the very first time either of us have owned a cat. We live in an apartment and wanted a dog, but ended up looking for a cat because we really wanted a fuzzy friend and a dog wasn’t ideal in our complex. We got Vincent whenever he was only 5 or 6 months old from a friend of my sister who couldn’t take care of him as she was in school.
We feed him in the morning and in the evening. Admittedly, my fiancé has been the one to feed him more than me recently. But I will still feed him fairly regularly in the mornings. Sometimes my fiancé will decide to just do it since he wakes up earlier than I do anyway.
Vincent doesn’t hide from me or anything, he’ll follow me and try and occasionally play with me, but he just doesn’t purr with me or cuddle with me anymore :( I don’t know if it was a kitten thing, or something else, now that he’s almost a year old. He used to want to cuddle with us right in our bed every night and would stay and cuddle with me in the mornings. He would purr with me quite often. I mean, over time I’ve been having to get on to him for a few things and I would grab him by the scruff of his neck pretty gently to show him I was upset, but I don’t know if that’s it or not.
So, what could be going on? Thank you!
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