Okay before the judgement begins. I feel like a terrible person for this in the first place.... I've had my kitty since she was a kitten. Kinda forced too? My family made me give up my old dog because she was a high energetic puppy plus she shedded a lot and my grandmother developed an allergy to dogs... So we could only keep my mom's dog. So, in the mist of fostering cats that my mother keep keeping in my room. My mom eventually asked if I wanted one of the cats. Me being a lonely kid through emotional abuse and bullied majority of my life... All I wanted was a friend. So, the next cat that came was tge one I got to keep.
She's a very small black and white cat. I've always ensured she had food, water, toys, scratching post, clean litter, and treats. Essentially treated her like a queen for her every day life. My issue was my family, especially my little brother and the family dog would terrorize the poor thing where she would shit, pee, etc everywhere when it happens. It would look like a hurricane. My mother a pos she is would do barely anything while I went to school and worked. (I was 15 when I got the cat)
I would do everything in my power to try to stop it happening but when you're just the kid any voice you raise you get put downed, grounded, things taken away. Basic stuff but for like, MONTHS. So, my cat has developed a loving (when alone) and hateful (around others) personality.. She only comes and cuddles when there's no other breathing person or animal in the area.
Even if, then if you do one thing she doesn't like she'll hiss, scratch, and bite. I'd leave it alright with that if she didn't try to rip apart my arm any time she got bored and my arm being near her.
If anyone comes in proximity of her she'll howl and start attacking. Especially when touched.
She does NOT like strangers unless she's on heat trying to hump people.
She HATES other animals.
Currently living with her 6 years later with my bf. She pisses and shits EVERYWHERE. hides under the driver seat since we live in an RV.
Few months back we found a kitten while doing a road trip. Just a wild cat that just went full cuddle mode when she got fed. So, we kept her. After that my cat gotten worse with peeing and pooping everywhere... My bf doesn't wanna give up the cat we found but he doesn't want to pressure me in doing anything with my cat... He's been really kind about it because I can see he's losing his mind. Plus we barely can have his kids around the place because of my cat. I'm not sure what to do, anymore. I love her but it's like an abusive relationship. I don't wanna give her up and afraid she's just going to live in the shelter for the rest of her life or get put down. I really don't want a decision to made lightly. I'm just at the end of my wits to do with a cat constantly destroying everything .
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