yesterday in the evening i adopted a 3 month old kitty. ive read many articules threads online about havin a cat and was sure that i can be a good mother for it - the internet convinced me
my familys reaction was really negative and they said that from there i should spend 8h to play with it clean after it etc otherwise ''theyre gonna get rid of it ''
so i played with it for like 4h and then immediately started to worrying is this place that adequate for the kitten to stay in? also ive got pretty bored after playing with it this huge amount of time instead of studying for an exam
from that moment ive been having ''puppy blues'' and couldnt stop regreting adopting it - even asked my mother if we can return it back to the previous owners - because from my point of view they were more ''prepared'' for the cat and know how to deal with it
she started to explain how the cat soon [when its gonna grow up a little] wont be that energic as it is now and that i should just take care of it for 10 months
because of that fact ive got in huge mourning that i wont be having any spare time for me
and went to sleep with hope that it wont interfere anyhow with me while im sleeping
but that wasnt in the case therefore it started even botherin me and wakin me up every 20 minutes - i just started fucking crying like a baby and tried to make it sleep in its own bed but it rejected doing what i wanted for me to be the best and even started to messing up with my sleep - it tried to sleep on my face and was purring very loud
my house isnt that big so i cant move it on to the another room - except the cold bathroom
im so scared that the cat will do something to itself when ill be sleeping with the closed doors
ive many dangerous things in my house that my parents dont want to get rid of so i suppose thats why im so scared
today ive found out that the cat has twisted leg - vet told us and my parents started to treat it very good for unknown reason and i started to blame myself for the cats health- but for my parents maybe they understood that the cat isnt that big problem FOR THEM [it got twisted ankle because it was jumping all over the place]
Now the main questions are: what should i do especially with the sleep problem? how much should i play with it? right now its lying till now on the bed while doing nothing because of the leg i really dont want to give it back now when i think about it but i dont want to have any problems with my mental health
PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE
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