Long story short. My ex and I shared custody of our 2 dogs. Eventually her bf that she lives with now, wanted her cut off ties with me completely. I tried working it out with her and talked to him, man to man, to reconsider all this. He refused and was petty and he chose to make it personal.
She offered me one of the dogs because her livelihood was at risk. I refused to separate the dogs and forcefully remove one of them from her. I relinquished ownership of both to her. Told her she is the better caretaker and due to my busy work schedule, I can't give them the love and attention that she could. Let alone separating.
Both of were an emotional wreak on the day I gave them a proper goodbye. I told her whatever happens and she can't manage them. To let me know. I won't block her number. These dogs were our forever dogs that we never gave away no matter what.
I had them for 5 yrs and I always felt that they'd be around until their last breath. I've been sleeping alot lately to not think of them. I'm just going to work and sleeping outside of work because it hurts to much.
Is there anything I can do to cope with the heartache? My friends believe I did the right thing and that karma will reward me in seeing the dogs again in the future. 😥🥺
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