Me and my wife finally got our own 2 cats. There was a lot of research going into this beforehand. Ive consumed many many books, watched a ton of videos, catsitted for 5 different cats over various lengths of time (longest was a month long as well as housesitting for a wonderful senior cat), and even volunteered for half a year in a shelter home with the cats. And now that I have them? Now that we adopted them, bought and renovated and catified our whole apartment I feel kinda depressed. Ive never been depressed before but I am now. My wife is happy, ecstatic and couldnt ask for more.
I on the other hand regret it. I wish I could return them. I feel like the biggest failure ever. I talked the ear off of my wife, my freinds and my family about how much I want those cats. Friends even printed our cats faces on blankets for us and I was happy. To calm down or cheer myself up after a long office day I often went on reddit to watch cat videos and pictures. And now? I want nothing more to do with them. I dont know why. I even cried. I havent cried in a good 5-6 years.
I googled around and some people say that they got better with it. After months. I dont know if I can wait that long.: https://www.lastwordonnothing.com/2015/09/29/i-got-the-post-puppy-blues/
What I am asking for here is: Does anyone have similar stories? how did it end up? What did you guys do? why did you have the blues? (because I sure as hell dont know)
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from Pets https://www.reddit.com/r/Pets/comments/ejkajb/post_adoption_blues_cats/
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