When I was a kid, I had this cat that I really, really loved. This cat just loved being around me. He died over 10 years ago and I still cry about him today. I missed that feeling so I recently got a new cat. It seemed chill and enjoyed being petted, so I adopted it.
The cat is usually well-behaved and social. He sleeps next to me and likes his head scratched. But there's still something not quite right about him and it's hard to explain. I just don't feel that same kind of love from this cat. The connection feels so much more shallow, as though he likes me, but doesn't love me. Like he's never going to love me as much as my other cat did.
Have you ever experienced anything like this. I feel like I now understand he difference between a cat that likes me and one that loves me. Have I screwed up?
I feel like I've taken on the burden of additional responsibilities but without the deep affection I was craving. I'm worried.
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