I just found out some pretty disappointing news and wanted to rant. In 2016 I was in my first “real relationship” well within that time I moved in with him.. we had 3 cats. I watched all of them basically grow in 3 years. The relationship ended, and I wanted to take 2 of the cats so badly because they were basically mine, because I was moving in with my mom I couldn’t take them, I thought I was leaving them there for the better so they could all 3 be together. Tonight was my ex’s moms birthday I haven’t talked to her in a year when shit hit the fan, my ex has me blocked on everything. I thought I would message her and catch up since I have finally healed from everything, come to find out a while back he basically abandoned them, they all left. She told me they would cry for me. I’m just so sad, I should’ve took them, I feel so guilty. I knew what their environment was and it wasn’t healthy.. but when I was there I made sure they had food, water, everything. I can’t help but feel like I was their only hope and I just let them down. I can’t believe he would do this to his animals, I’m angry nobody reached out to me and told me he left, I would’ve found some way over there to pick them up and take them, I just needed to vent, I feel very guilty and I cried for 30 minutes. I will NEVER make this mistake again.
The only bright side to this is I know for the 3 years I was with him they had a happy life, I know they were loved for a fact I just wish things could’ve been different
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