In January I adopted my first fur-baby Lena, she's almost 2! And she's absolutely gorgeous.... Yesterday I adopted a male cat, he's 10mths old and his name is Oswald. My kitty has separation anxiety so I thought adopting another would help while I'm at work, plus I really wanted another Cat! I thought about it for a few months now.
Lena has become reserved 😞 now watching from afar, no more kneading into my blankets and sleeping near me. She's become anxious over me petting her! And becoming aggressive, I've never known her to be like this....it's making me depressed. I suffer from depression and I'm diagnosed with Aspergers (Or ASD), so change may affect me this way. However her anxious mood and not being with me as much is making me super sad 😖
I call to her like always....and she cries as she walks up, but it's like she can't even pull herself to get close to me for affection anymore! Oswald is all over me instead, Lena has never been one to force affection, I understand that.....but I want her to at least show me what she use to 😟 not stare from afar. Oswald is a bed cat that sleeps on my pillow, while Lena enjoys at my feet or in her living room cat globe/house.
Will my Cat ever act herself again? 😞 and has anyone ever felt guilty about adopting another Cat? I feel like I'm showing more affection to Oswald due to him climbing over me constantly.
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